Often people ask me what is the difference between etiquette, protocol and ethics.
Well, here it comes:
Etiquette: The conduct of procedure required by good breeding or prescribed by authority to be observed in social or official life; a set of rules that the higher class lived by. Etiquette is not a matter of stuffiness, just a matter of properness. Good manners make things run more smoothly. Etiquette has been described as a behavior governed by three general principles: consideration, respect and honesty.
Protocol: A formal code of etiquette of affairs of state. Protocol has been observed since the ancient Egyptians. Protocol is a specialized branch of civility.
Ethics: A set of principles of right conduct; a theory or a system of moral values; what you do, and who you are.
What people are saying:
Thank you for this Newsletter. Just what l needed.
Excellent!
Ageism is a rapidly evolving issue as an ever larger portion of people get older. And a sad sign is how so many “downtalk” to aging parents, relatives and friends. The examples in your latest newsletter scream derogatory… disrespectful…! All it takes is to show respect by using mindful words.
– Bart Mindszenthy –Co-author
Parenting your Parents: Straight Talk About Aging in the Family (2024)
Thank you for addressing this important misstep. I have come to the conclusion that some people have little self awareness about this issue. I have politely brought this to the attention some people who use terms such as “deerie”. Surprisingly, I have been told that I don’t get it. Having been on the receiving end makes me more conscious about how I treat others.
– Dianne Anderson
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– Sharon Nobis
Oh bless. Thank you.
Another great newsletter with a wonderful reminder to be respectful. I had not heard the term elderspeak and appreciate the definition. In gratitude,
– Cathy Nesbitt –Multi-award-winning entrepreneur
You learn something new every day. Never heard of the term elderspeak before but yes I’ve witnessed it and even been addressed by the terms mentioned. But I just ignore it and go my way. I’m just thankful to God for giving me these years.
– Dawn Clarke
I am humbled by the description of condescending to the elderly by calling them dear etc. I’m going to have to rethink any bad language habits I’ve developed with adults.
– Catherine B.
Thank you for your Newsletter. I appreciate you giving us great advice.
– Olga Grant
Thank You!
Great newsletter! I can relate so well to the elderspeak. You’re doing a wonderful job!
Thank you,
– Valerie Dooley
Thanks for this reminder. I was taught to respect my elders so elder speak is not something I would do. I hope.
– Debbie
Thank you so much for including this in the Newsletter!
The more people know and learn about the manners, the better!
– Anne Rose
Good post. Lots if good information. Thanks.
– Jerome Shore
Ahogy kozeledunk a 100-hoz Aporkam, ugy aktualis ez a szep resz is!
Szeretettel
– Geza
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Leilától
– Gödöll?r?l
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